If someone could let him know I would be grateful.
Thanking you
thisaussiegirl (Debbie)
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I am sorry to post this here but I don't know how to get hold of Dave Graham to advise him. My 11yr old son Bailey died on Wednesday in his sleep after
years of battling Juvenile Huntington's Disease. Dave has been supportive but I haven't seen him around and don't know how to find him on facebook.
If someone could let him know I would be grateful. Thanking you thisaussiegirl (Debbie) |
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Im really sorry to hear that Debbie, If I had the right words I'd post them but I just don't know what to say. He sure is a beautiful boy.
Love and best wishes Frank |
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alun taylor |
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so sad debbie . im realy sorry .
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thisaussiegirl |
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Thank you, I have now lost both my beautiful boys, one aged 7 and one aged 11. I am still in shock and cannot believe this has happened.
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superyob |
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Sorry to hear of your loss Debbie. Going through a crisis here with Mum at the moment so things arent too easy. If you need a friendly ear or just someone to
talk to give me a call.
Take care................ Mark |
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How terrible. I can't begin to imagine how awful such a loss can be. All I can do is offer my condolences to you.
I hope that you find strength from the support of friends and family. Keith |
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gary jordan brum |
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sorry to here this Debbie take care we'er all thinking of you at this sad time Gaz
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Roach Daddy |
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So sad...
...all I can do is send my sympathy... |
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joehawkins |
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Words fail Debbie. Anything we can do?
Love and heartfelt sympathy - Paul |
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Coz I Luv Me |
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I have not posted on here for yonks as there is nothing worth talking about at present. This serves as a reminder that the most important things in life are
our friends and family. My deepest sympathy Debbie for the loss of your beautiful boy. I am sure he is with his brother watching over you and they will be in
your heart forever.
Best wishes Simon. |
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Thanks all so much, I will so miss hearing him sing Run Run Away and Coz I Love You loudly - with the emphasis on YOU whenever I hear these songs. He would
listen to RRA over and over but as his speech deteriorated it became harder for him to get the words out so only certain words would make it out loud. I
don't know how I will go on without them both, I still have my husband who is now in full time care with Huntingtons as well so dread the fact that his
time will also come unless a cure is found - which I have lost all faith in now.
One thing that will keep me going is the music of Slade and the togetherness of the fans, I constantly still look at you tube for anything new and noticed Dave works sometimes at Wolverhampton Special School so looked it up and found it similar to the school Bailey and Kieran went to. Good on him for accepting these children and treating them like anyone else through music - Bailey was a real performer and happily sang at school assemblies for his 'girlfriend' even though he was only 11. We didn't have a Slade song at the service, but I can still hear his voice singing away to his fave songs. Please love your children and hold them tight, they are so precious and I can't begin to explain how the loss of 2 of them makes me feel - especially with Mothers Day this Sunday. I have to do it for my Mum but inside I will be like a zombie. Love to everyone, all the Slade fans over the world thisaussiegirl (Debbie) If anyone can get a hold of Dave Graham can they let him know, I can't find him on facebook as there are thousands but he was always supportive of me when Bailey took sick. Ta |
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I've sent DG a message via Facebook.
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I sent one a couple of days back but Dave hasn't been active on Facebook since 4th May, if I remember right?
Sorry Debbie, I don't know you but it's bloody awful news to hear. I hope you are getting some 'in person' moral support? Life can be a bitch sometimes and we have to pick ourselves up a forge on but you seem to have been given a whole trailer load of grief. I can only assume that God (or whoever) 'in his infinite wisdom' decided that you were strong enough to carry the burden for other lesser mortals. As unfair as that is, don't let life beat you down. I offer my condolences and would like you to know, I carry You and Yours in my thoughts. My heart goes out to you all. When the shit-storm is over Debbie, there will be a break waiting around the bend just for you. |
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Roach Daddy |
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Debbie - I don't know you. I have two kids who I love more than life itself. I don't know how you deal with what you are going through at the moment.
But if you want someone else to talk to just get in touch:
MrDerekHill@hotmail.com |
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im so very sorry to read this Debbie.
there are no words |
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Thank you all so very much, I am overwhelmed at your responses. I have lots of people around me and checking on me so I am being well looked after. All I can
say is love your children with all your heart because now, although I can talk to my boys, I can't have the physical contact with them which I miss so
much. So many around me are also grieving and need extra help themselves and I guess I am the main one who can help them through their grieving.
I wish you all good health and happiness, and please love your kids. thisaussiegirl |
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I can only echo the words of everyone else.
It is really sad to hear what you have shared with us, and i cannot begin to understand how you must feel. I've sat staring at the screen, trying to come up with words that might offer comfort, but i can't find any. My heart goes out to you. |
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Sorry to hear the terrible news, Debbie. I wish you all the strength and love to cope with this immense and unfair loss. Pete
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Cest la vie M |
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Sorry to hear your news.
Tragic... Martin x |
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No grief greater than losing one's child. He had a good mama, Debbie, beginning to end. So sorry for your loss. John Murlow
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Very sad to hear it.Wish you all the best.
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